It's important to remember, that in order to keep love alive, one must be loving to their loved one. Beam loving thoughts to them, show care by actions, allow them the freedom to be who they are as that is who you are supposed to love! Sometimes we try to change a person and, you know what, that just doesn't work out too well. It's hard enough to change who we are, much less someone else.
What we say to another person who loves us is so very important. Their ego is invested in us and our words carry great weight. So, please don't forget to send some words of encouragement, of kindness and helpfulness-- not criticism nor complaint, listen to your own words that you use. Be grateful and show gratitude to the one who loves you.
If someone is showing you love, show your appreciation with words and actions.
Make sure you have FUN with your loved one. We know we have to share burdens with our partner and sometimes because of all the hard stuff we forget to just have fun. Create common goals and don't forget what is important to you. Please don't fault find-- it creates space between you and creates unhappiness.
Develop a sense of humor. It can save you sometimes.
However, if someone is treating your poorly, love yourself enough to get away before it destroys your spirit. Sometimes, a person has to lose someone they love before they realize what they had and what they lost. Sometimes, a person needs to lose someone too, because someone better may be on the way.
Don't wait for your special person to do right by you first... start the ball rolling and start beaming those loving thoughts.
Remember when you change the way you do things, the other person will need a bit of time to get used to it. But they will have to change their response in time when you change the way you relate to them to begin with.
Okay, that is just my thought for today.
Here is a link for an awesome poem:
It's important to remember, that in order to keep love alive, one must be loving to their loved one. Beam loving thoughts to them, show care by actions, allow them the freedom to be who they are as that is who you are supposed to love! Sometimes we try to change a person and, you know what, that just doesn't work out too well. It's hard enough to change who we are, much less someone else.
What we say to another person who loves us is so very important. Their ego is invested in us and our words carry great weight. So, please don't forget to send some words of encouragement, of kindness and helpfulness-- not criticism nor complaint, listen to your own words that you use. Be grateful and show gratitude to the one who loves you.
If someone is showing you love, show your appreciation with words and actions.
Make sure you have FUN with your loved one. We know we have to share burdens with our partner and sometimes because of all the hard stuff we forget to just have fun. Create common goals and don't forget what is important to you. Please don't fault find-- it creates space between you and creates unhappiness.
Develop a sense of humor. It can save you sometimes.
However, if someone is treating your poorly, love yourself enough to get away before it destroys your spirit. Sometimes, a person has to lose someone they love before they realize what they had and what they lost. Sometimes, a person needs to lose someone too, because someone better may be on the way.
Don't wait for your special person to do right by you first... start the ball rolling and start beaming those loving thoughts.
Remember when you change the way you do things, the other person will need a bit of time to get used to it. But they will have to change their response in time when you change the way you relate to them to begin with.
Okay, that is just my thought for today.
click here for an awesome poem about true love:
http://www.davidpbrown.co.uk/poetry/oriah-mountain-dreamer.html
